Lowering their standards as men get sicker of them

[ng85]

Here's an observation I've noticed over the past month or so - The harder a woman is to deal with, the quicker they reach their prime, and the sooner they'll have to lower their standards to compensate. Case in point - Thanks to the magic of Facebook, I've seen that women as young as 21 are beginning to date "nice guys" or ugly guys or guys with no aspirations for the future because they're the only people that will put up with their bullshit.

I first noticed this with one girl who was a regular at a bar I went to. This girl is 21 and absolutely gorgeous. Really tight body, nice hair, and as far as I could tell little to no make-up. A natural beauty. But there's another side to her - She's BATSHIT INSANE. The first time I saw her, she went up to the DJ and began venting about her job and how much her boss sucks....For 3 hours. If the DJ wasn't paying attention (Because he had work to do), she'd flip out on him. I got to know her a bit, and even for all her good looks I just couldn't see myself being with her. Her Facebook was filled with all of these angsty poems and vague, angry status updates that just really turned me off. You know it's bad when her mom just posts on her Wall saying "Don't worry, honey, it'll get better. We're working on it." I'm sure Charles Manson would cal her a loon.

She recently got a job at a restaurant and began dating a manager there. I don't know exactly how high on the totem pole the guy is, but he's probably only 21, himself, and probably an assistant to the assistant manager. The guy looks like he's never had a girlfriend before, and he's probably overexcited that this hot babe wants to go out with him. Two weeks into their relationship she moved in. This will not end well.

My last long-term ex (Aged 23) also proved this to me. After we broke up I began to see things for how they really were, and I realized she was actually pretty nuts and displayed a ton of Cluster-B personality traits (If she's not a borderline, then I don't know who is). When we broke up she began seeing other guys.....In other states. The first guy was a few hours away. The second guy was 2 time zones away. Recently she drove across the country to spend Valentine's Day with someone she had never even met. I remember my ex was really narcissistic and into looks, almost like a guy, and when we were together she told me she liked thin guys with no facial hair. Oddly enough, she wasn't attracted to me at first because of how I made her feel or what I could provide, it was because she liked how I looked. I'm an average-looking guy, but apparently she was smitten with me. I figured she was just making it up, but it became a point of contention when I began growing facial hair and gained some weight. It was like she thought the world would end because I wasn't stick-thin and bald-faced. Part of the reason why we broke up is because she thought I was a fat slob (AKA I got to a BMI of 25...Yeah, real fat).

But then I saw a photo of her next bf, and he had a beer gut and looked like he had Downs. The guy she's seeing now is pretty fat, and really hairy. So I doubt she was lying about her "type" of guy (Since she flipped out when I didn't meet those standards), but she's dating someone now who is like her complete opposite of what she said was her ideal guy. And yes, women do act on how a guy makes her feel, so that could be a big point, but she always made such a big deal about looks. I have reason to believe lots of people caught on to her crazy tendencies, and that's why she's downgrading and looking abroad for partners - No one near her wants to date her. So she went from me, an average-looking guy near her, to an okay-looking guy a few hours away, to an okay-looking guy a few states away, to a fat hairy guy a few time zones away. It can't be coincidence.

And don't get me started on this crazy yet gorgeous girl I saw in college who went from me to a basement-dwelling anime nerd in less than 2 years. How crazy was she? I met her at her birthday party where no one showed up, and by the end of the night she tried killing herself. I dunno, sounds like a catch to me!

We all know women have long laundry lists of traits for their "perfect man"...It's just sad when a woman has to deviate from that before the age of 25 because guys don't find them worth the hassle.

[Sam I Am]

displayed a ton of Cluster-B personality traits

(If she's not a borderline, then I don't know who is

really narcissistic and into looks

she always made such a big deal about looks

sounds histrionic.
.. especially if had a tendency to be/look overly sexual.. in the way she dressed, carried herself, reacted with people, etc.., i.e., think 'jessica rabbit' type...

[downandout]

Here's an observation I've noticed over the past month or so - The harder a woman is to deal with, the quicker they reach their prime, and the sooner they'll have to lower their standards to compensate. Case in point - Thanks to the magic of Facebook, I've seen that women as young as 21 are beginning to date "nice guys" or ugly guys or guys with no aspirations for the future because they're the only people that will put up with their bullshit.

A friend of a friend of mine did this.

She spent her teens fucking everything that moved. She was really good-looking, but incredibly slutty. She ended up getting pregnant and becoming a single mother. The guy wanted nothing to do with her, and she wanted nothing to do with him so she didn't press for child support. Fast forward a few years (and a lot more sexual encounters), and she meets your typical hard-working, not exciting beta. Within a few months they married.

I will say that they still are married, but at an enormous cost to the guy. She has some pretty severe psychological issues that he's had to deal with, on top of supporting the bastard kid along with the other ones he created with her. She's also a complete bitch and pretty much useless. But hey, it's worth it because he loves her. Lol.

[piedpiper]

She's also a complete bitch and pretty much useless.

Been there done that. Amazing how fast a woman with an ass can get someone to pay her bills. My ex remarried 10 months after divorce, in the middle of her 2nd trimester. Guys were lined up to screw her, one got her pregnant, he's toast now. He gets the pleasure of supporting her, her new baby, his previous baby mamma too.

Considering she hits 40 in 6 years and she has no redeeming qualities besides her fading (already faded to be honest) looks, I'd say he chose poorly. But I consider him a national hero for getting my alimony terminated.

[ng85]

sounds histrionic.
.. especially if had a tendency to be/look overly sexual.. in the way she dressed, carried herself, reacted with people, etc.., i.e., think 'jessica rabbit' type...

Yeah, she likes to draw attention to herself, but will never admit it. She doesn't dress in an overly sexual way, but she wears things and styles her hair in ways that are out of the ordinary. Then when someone asks her about it, she flips out and she assumes they think she's a freak.

[hasmat]

Right now, I'm "dating" six chicks from 22 to 44. They're all varying degrees of psychotic. I had a vasectomy a decade ago. I can't get them pregnant. I like to tape the sex (they know) and I save their texts where they beg for it. I'm not worried about false allegations. Been there, so I am pretty careful. The only real issue for me, besides lack of sleep, is STDs. I get checked all the time, but nothing can eliminate that risk. I'm pretty picky, but who knows who they sleep with when I don't answer my phone.

I've turned down quite a few. Many are single moms. If they send me a photo of their kid(s), it's over. If they spend hours talking about their kids, goodbye. With the list that I have, If the cutest one says "no, not tonight", I just call the next one. Only made it thru all of them one time.

That being said, I am not a PUA. I DO NOT want a relationship. I'll never marry again. I don't mind their company if they can hold it together for the time we are fucking. The secret is to make them pursue you.

Can't get laid? Lonely? Unloved? Nope! But I don't care, either.

Yes, they are all nuts.

[Sam I Am]

The secret is to make them pursue you.

This.

...which, IMO, is more easily accomplished by what was mentioned in another thread around here (my paraphrase):

Think of her as a guy when you're out with her

[ng85]

This.

...which, IMO, is more easily accomplished by what was mentioned in another thread around here (my paraphrase):

Exactly. Women want to be men more than anything in this society. Which is why most of them are so fucked up.

[Calloway]

Right now, I'm "dating" six chicks from 22 to 44.

SIX chicks? Dude, where do you get the energy!

[Armageddon15]

reason # 4,876,390,712 i ghost

[hasmat]

SIX chicks? Dude, where do you get the energy!

From Jim Beam. Work hard and play hard.

The youngest is fucking hot, so makes "lack of energy" a non issue. I'm very fit, they tell me, for an "old guy".

[spidey]

This has always happened

When a girl is young she is endlessly pampered and spoiled by countless guys who want to get into her pants, because of this there is nothing to reign in her increasingly psychotic personality, like the story of The Emperor's New Clothes; just like the emperor who believes that he is wearing the most wonderful clothes in the world, these young girls are made to believe that her idiotic remarks are witty and funny, that her temper tantrums are "cute" and that she is the most wonderful human being in the world.

So when their looks fade, when all the exciting bad boys and good looking players move onto the new generation of young girls, these older hags are left with nothing more than a horrid personality. They have given their youth and their beauty to the players, they have let their minds/intelligence and personality atrophy, and they have STDs, high debt and perhaps a child from a one night stand. And to make matters worse, these women still have the sense of entitlement and high expectations that they had when they were younger.

So why would any man with a descent career, good savings and responsible personality choose a girl who irresponsibly wasted her youth and looks? Will her being a single mom help him in any positive way? If his prospective wife has STDs and a history of doing drugs/alcohol, how on earth will that help him have healthy children? how will engaging in a traditional relationship with a non-traditional woman benefit any man? Did all those years of partying, and spending lavishly give her the financial discipline and wisdom to be a benefit to her partner?

Truth is women today are parasites hopping from one host to another, they will always try to get the best host they can, however as they age, their ability to find a good host rapidly diminishes, but by the time they realize, all the good men are gone so all they have left is the most undesirable or equally psychotic men, sometimes they may get lucky and latch on to a nice guy who still hasn't taken the red pill but this is becoming increasingly rare.

This is the ultimate revenge for all the ignored/ridiculed/shamed average joes, nice guys and nerds. We simply have to look after ourselves, work on our own happiness and let the universe/mother nature dish out our revenge for us. And if you want to take a lesson from Tom Leykis: Get revenge on these old hags by banging their now hot grown up daughters

[piedpiper]

Truth is women today are parasites

almost went and registered Truthiswomentodayareparasites.com The title alone has more value than the entire wikipedia.

[Locutus of Borg]

absolutely gorgeous.... BATSHIT INSANE.

Yes... yes... I know correlation does not imply causation, but seriously, can't we just skip the research and call this one as an absolute.

[Superion]

When I was in College I met several women just like this.

One girl in particular, I'll call her Amy, was a perfect example.

Great body, fucked like crazy.

After school, she became a fat, alcoholic.

Hit her 40's and married a chubby, nice guy who has no idea what a slut she was.

I feel sorry for him.

[Thrasher]

When I was in College I met several women just like this.

One girl in particular, I'll call her Amy, was a perfect example.

Great body, fucked like crazy.

After school, she became a fat, alcoholic.

Hit her 40's and married a chubby, nice guy who has no idea what a slut she was.

I feel sorry for him.

RIGHT ON. Can totally relate - my exes would an exact example of that. Banged them hundreds of times when they were young, sweet and hot. Now, they're pushing 40, fat, demanding, short hair, kids, douche husband, and the rest, which they put all over facebook. If only those guys knew how their cupcake was plowed by both me and God only knows who else, after we broke up.

[ng85]

Yes... yes... I know correlation does not imply causation, but seriously, can't we just skip the research and call this one as an absolute.

Woody Allen said it best, "Beauty drives a woman crazy."

[ronin]

As they say, it doesn't matter how beautiful a woman is, somewhere there's a guy sick of her shit.

[LaffingNow]

absolutely gorgeous.... BATSHIT INSANE.

Yes... yes... I know correlation does not imply causation, but seriously, can't we just skip the research and call this one as an absolute.

I accept this as a universal axiom.

[Dj_mgtow]

When I was in College I met several women just like this.

One girl in particular, I'll call her Amy, was a perfect example.

Great body, fucked like crazy.

After school, she became a fat, alcoholic.

Hit her 40's and married a chubby, nice guy who has no idea what a slut she was.

I feel sorry for him.

Repeat....rinse. I've seen this so many times it's not funny. My girlfriend from highschool is so overweight and ugly now, even her eyelids are fat, and not only that, she's a radical feminist bisexual cunt as well. I think she's dating a fat dude now.

What must have gone through her mind when she saw me with a 25 year old on my arm......looking relatively unchanged from 20 years ago whilst she has morphed into Pizza the Hut.