I don't fully understand the concept, or purpose of ghosting.

[-CRaSH-]

The only benefits that I can think of:

- Learn to abstain from pussy for an extended amount of time.

- Lowers your chances of having a vindictive harlot coming after you.

- You get to constantly crush The Female Ego.

You could argue that: "You rarely have to speak to women anymore."

But I see no problem with speaking to women. Seeing as I myself, am very selective about who I socialize with. So If I see that someone is of low character/douchebag/douchebagette/dick/cunt, etc. Then I'm not even going to give them the time of day. So the women that I socialize with aren't bitches(for the most part;)).

I already know how to abstain from pussy for extended periods of time, I've never had a vindicitve harlot come after me, and I know how to deal with one if that happens.

So what's the purpose/benefit of ghosting?

[boxer]

I see it as a discipline that a brother may choose to adopt simply for the sake of self-awareness and self-control.

That said, it is not for everyone. Right now I know it's not for me, either.

Like the monastery, it is a calling. A brother who goes ghost often does so to free himself from carnal pleasures and devote his life to himself and perhaps his spiritual and intellectual life instead.

[llxoa]

Sounds like you have perfected ghosting to me.

[teotwawki]

reduce the attention whores get

reduce the tax base from society, this is because most of it is a wealth transfer from men to women!

reduce male slavery to females in the form of child support and alimony

reduce the male supplementation to females standard of living from favors, dinner, drinks, ect.

reduce the addiction to pussy or at least paying what it is worth, which is ALMOST NOTHING in the current day.

These are the things that come to mind at the moment.


You are not starting out as a mangina/white knight so you are WAY ahead of the curve. You are probably either closer to ghosting than you realize or would not be sucked into hosting one of the parasites. You were not raised in a way where you were looking like a girl just like your mom. I was and it did not work out so well!

If you can deal with a book of biblical length read Atlas Shrugged. Going Galt is ghosting IMO.

[-CRaSH-]

I see it as a discipline that a brother may choose to adopt simply for the sake of self-awareness and self-control.

A brother who goes ghost often does so to free himself from carnal pleasures and devote his life to himself and perhaps his spiritual and intellectual life instead.

Sounds like you have perfected ghosting to me.

Basedo n what you two just said, it looks like I'm already a ghost. Seems like I just haven't noticed it at the time when I made this topic.

Thanks for pointing it out to me.

[fairi5fair]

Benefits of ghosting:

- takes a good man off the market, hastening the popping of the Misandry Bubble; like any other boycott, it starves the beast

- one gets a good long look at how much of their behavior is devoted to getting pussy, and therefore can make healthy priority adjustments

- saves lots of time and money

- monkey-wrenches a diseased system based on exploiting men's biology

- develops a keen sense of liberation from the wheel of what Buddhists call "Samsara", (I highly recommend reading the book "Siddhartha" by Herman Hesse).

- Helps those who have been programmed their whole lives to be nice-guy manginas, pussy beggars, "hopeless romantics", etc., break free from their daisy-picking conditioning and achieve the balance of true manhood

- Expands one's sphere of availability, (i.e., ghosting now has loosened my moral fibers well enough to call a dumb cunt a DUMB CUNT to her ugly puckered face without a second thought, whereas I used to be hampered by artificial values that made women out to be somehow beyond such honest scrutiny.)

- Increases the game potential of the ghost. Nothing is more hopeless than a mangina who tries to jump right into PUA games without changing his overall perspective on women: he'll be ensnared and have his game turned against him damn near instantly when he lets down his guard, after the first signs of success, since his overall program is still pussy-addiction, pussy-desperation, making up for pussy-deprivation, etc. A period of ghosting, digesting the red pills fully, and understanding the value of his own celibacy seems crucial to posturing ones self effectively with women. Otherwise, a mangina who goes right into PUA gaming without acquiring the necessary attitude and self-respect is just like a perfumed pig.

- Pretty damn good assurance against STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and the wrath of most Gods if you believe in such things. I'm a model agnostic myself, but I do think there was wisdom in the religious teachings that recommend letting one's willpower and mind be the master of one's sexuality instead of the other way around.

- Society has a harder time taking your dick, wrapping it around your neck, and hanging you with it if you only use it to pee and jerk off.

[zuberi]

So what's the purpose/benefit of ghosting?

Self preservation. Something that "flower children" often snare at.

[Calloway]

Safety. Your personal safety. In a world full of chaos that doesn't give a rat's ass about you. Because you were born with a penis.

[logos]

What other have said plus it also keeps you safer against false violence and rape claims. That and the STD thing, the less female bullshit thing, and the change the world one guy at a time thing (denying undeserving women a partner) are my reasons for Ghosting.

[-CRaSH-]

What other have said plus it also keeps you safer against false violence and rape claims.

Even so. The probability of false claims of 'abuse' befalling me are in themselves.. Rare.

[fairi5fair]

Even so. The probability of false claims of 'abuse' befalling me are in themselves.. Rare.

Famous last words, lol. "It couldn't happen to me" is the type of thinking that brings men to the Altar to say "I do."

You ever hear the expression that it's better to have a gun and not need it than to need a gun and not have it? Your own sister said she's fine with a man being castrated for cheating on her, so how much different do you think most other women are in today's sexual miasma? You don't even have to cheat on a woman; if she thinks you've cheated on her, chances are you're in for some kind of wildly disproportionate rite of vengeance.

Just be careful, dude.

[-CRaSH-]

Famous last words, lol. "It couldn't happen to me" is the type of thinking that brings men to the Altar to say "I do."

You ever hear the expression that it's better to have a gun and not need it than to need a gun and not have it? Your own sister said she's fine with a man being castrated for cheating on her, so how much different do you think most other women are in today's sexual miasma? You don't even have to cheat on a woman; if she thinks you've cheated on her, chances are you're in for some kind of wildly disproportionate rite of vengeance.

Just be careful, dude.

I know, I'm not saying that it CAN'T happen to me, I'm just saying that the actual chances of that happening to me are rare. With, or without a GF.

[pcr]

Its an insurance policy that requires character, not money.

PCR

[Cobalt]

I'm not 100% ghost. However, I tend to see ghosting in very pragmatic terms: no unwanted pregnancies, no paternity fraud, no child support, no being cuckolded, no useless drama, no STDs, no violence allegations, no losing your house, assets, or money.

It's about peace and simplicity.

[Scoff]

I do not ghost, and I may be wrong (please correct me brothers), but I see it as a rejection of society, not just a tactic for avoiding women. For example, back in the day, Henry David Thoreau rebelled against possessions and the social / economic infrastructure that keeps people tied to them (he still chased the pussy though). I see it more in that light.

Its a discipline and at the same time its letting your mind go wild. You do not even pretend to give in to any of the social and behavioral constructs 19th, 20th and 21st century anglo-society has established, and do everything possible to avoid being tethered to its anti-male legal system.

Its hard fucking core.

[womanhater]

Ghosting as I see it is a bloodless form of guerrilla warfare on three fronts - moral, legal, and economic.

Moral - this society is too sick to survive. ANY cooperation with this abomination is an act of evil, and any form of assistance or support of it is sinister and brings condemnation to your soul and character. By withdrawing from this diseased, corrupt and decrepit society as much as possible, I am rejecting evil and doing the right thing as I see it. Even something as small as holding a door for a twat is an act of submission to the enemy and an act of treason against righteousness.

Economic - I structure my life so I take as much as possible from the state while giving as little back as possible. Since this monstrosity that oppresses us all is fueled by little green pieces of paper, it is the duty of every awake and aware man to refuse to cooperate as much as he can by refusing to worship at the altar of greed and materialism. Do not misunderstand me brothers, I am not advocating that you all live in ramshackle moldy trailer homes - far from it! I am simply stating that a ghost ought to minimize his taxable events as much as possible, and maximize the events in his life that result in him being subsidized by the enemy. Do NOT give the twats any of the money you've earned. I do not even hire women to do anything in my life if I can find a man to do it - even if it costs more. By ghosting, we deny a parasite female a host, we deny the army of soul-sucking, family-destroying vermin like divorce lawyers and other feminists the fuel for the inferno they use to incinerate the lives and futures of men who wanted nothing more than to realize the promises the state and society made to them. Every dollar you keep or enjoy yourself is an act of war against the enemy. Remember brothers that every dollar you spend is a vote on what exists in the world.

Legally - And since we men outside of the legally protected classes have insufficient numbers and means to take the beast on directly, we must instead live our lives in such a way as to avoid the scrutiny of the agents of the tyrant and to disengage from the entire rotten corrupt edifice of modern society as much as we possibly can. The tyrant does not even bother with the charade of the CONstitution anymore so ghosting can be seen as wise self-preservation by keeping yourself out of the system - child-support enforcement, domestic 'violence' counseling, etc - all of which fund the livings of many classes of enemy bureaucrats and technicians. By avoiding the actions that allow the state into your life any more than is absolutely necessary, you can starve the beast of at least one more soul to run through the threshing machine of alimony, divorce, and child support, to say nothing of the real possibility of an innocent man being drug from family court into criminal court.

To the original point of this thread though - as a man who possesses a conscience and who believes that I will one day stand accountable for every thing I've ever done or failed to do, I cannot in good conscience do otherwise.

That said, ghosting was in many ways a selfish act as well. I had a horrific case of pussy addiction that damn near ruined my life many times over. I once read that the slogan of Narcotics Anonymous is "Once is too many, and a thousand is never enough." That makes such perfect sense to me! From adopting that mindset, I've freed myself from the parasites of soul and resources known as women. While learning the true nature of the female was in many ways on of the hardest things I've ever had to do, it liberated me to live what life I have left on my own terms, and with honor.

[Wilson]

I like ghosting because it makes me happy. I spent a lot of time and money in my younger years chasing tail, and yes, I had some success. I eventually came to the conclusion that sex is greatly overrated. Dealing with a modern woman is not worth a few seconds of orgasmic pleasure now and then. I know that there are men who enjoy the chase and conquest, but I am no longer one of them. There are pursuits in life that I find far more rewarding (I do not want to be specific here because I do not like to reveal too much about myself online). The more I have limited my contact with women, the happier my life has been. I am not trying to make a political or cultural statement by ghosting; I'm just trying to make the best use of the time I have on this earth. Ghosting is not for every man, but it is working well for me.

[7 skulls]

Peace and simplicity is certainly right. When it comes to women/pussy, its easier to be like water and flow right on past. Less drama, less hassle. For me too, it was about subverting my natural drives. I read once about a species of mouse in which the male mouse finds a mate, has sex for 12 hours and drops dead. The male mouse is just following its genetic program to its inevitable end. Learning to opt out of your own programing, going your own way, whatever you want to call it, there are rewards.

[Spoon]

Ghosting is social disobedience.

It is a reaction to society's pressures. If you don't like the game they want you to play, you can take your ball and walk away.

In regards to women, I can't be bothered to pursue them. I see it as more trouble then it's worth. Besides that, a woman can't give me anything that is worth risking paying child support. I don't want children and I don't see myself as being a father. Women have absolute control over what will happen, I have little power over my reproductive capacity.

If I could double up birth control methods it would be acceptable. Two 99% effective methods that I can control would make the chance of pregnancy extremely slim. Even if one method were compromised there would be a backup. But as it is there are only three methods for a man. Vasectomy, condoms and abstinance. The first would be difficult to get as I am a young man and in most cases it's permenant, which is not necessarily ideal. Condoms are not very reliable but they could be one method... One method is not enough. With no contingency for condom failure that I can control, it only leaves abstinance as the viable choice. This is all predicated on child support being unacceptable in any way. And female based methods are irrelevant because I can't control them and I what a woman says has nothing to do with what happens.

[wiserman]

While Im married I fully endorse the "ghosting" concept with tweaks for whatever lifestyle you want to have.


The way I see it, the society you're born into offers a contract. The individual does x, y and z and society will provide the benefits of a,b and c.

When one side defaults on a contract the contract is void unless the other party consents to the new contract and conditions.

Society has defaulted on the contract. I am only bound by the rules and ethical code that I choose from now on. More and more people are realizing this--most on a subconscious level. This is why the police and powers that be---are responding to situations with deadly force more and more. The crime level is actually dropping but the ruby ridge style responses are more common.

Anytime the Dept of Education has a swat team on staff.....things are twisted beyond any historical societal contract.