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How to plan a career in your 20s to stay home with kids in your 30s | Penelope Trunk BlogHere’s something about stay-at-home moms: they all want full-time nannies. It’s indulgent, yes. But it’s nice. Really nice. I tell you this to let you know that if you marry rich, staying at home will be easier than if you don’t marry rich. But you already knew that.
Let me get this straight:
step 1: marry a rich guy so you dont have to work
step 2: have kids so you have an excuse not to work
step 3: spend your husband's paycheck on a full time nanny so you dont have to bother raising your kids
step 4: YOU HAVE REACHED THE HIGHEST LEVEL OF PARASITE ACHIEVEMENT, CONGRATS!
"And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her." -Holy Bible











From the article:
Couldn't be because someone has to work and the woman ain't gonna do it. So that leaves us guys. It's not that our career "doesn't tank". It's that men do what needs to be done. Period.And it’s clear that men are not pulled by kids in nearly the same way women are, because women’s careers tank when they have kids and mens’ careers don’t.
I seem to remember hearing that before. It's funny when the concepts and ideas we talk about here go mainstream.Sidenote for women who don’t want kids. If you have even read this far: Even high-earning women want to be with men who earn more than they do.
So... you're planning on having kids just to not be with them. ...and that's called planning?The best way to stay home with kids and not lose your mind from boredom is to pay someone to take care of your kids while you do freelance work.
So that's why our house was always a mess! No need to actually TRY to clean the house. I mean, you're not getting paid for it, so why bother!When you think plan remember that you should not plan to do anything more than break-even on this work. This is not moneymaking work.
So... you should start preparing for the fact that lowly, hubby, who you have always looked down on, will now be "moving ahead" of you? What does "moving ahead" even mean, in this context?Women are performing at a higher level at work than men are right now. So, statistically speaking, when you decide to stay home with kids, the people you were better than will start moving ahead of you. It will kill you. Prepare for this.
This woman is nuts.
Whoever says that slavery is dead hasn't been married.











Yup. Modern women do not want the responsibility of having to raise their children. They view kids as an accessory...like a handbag.











I nearly forgot step 5:
After 10-15 years of sitting around the house while her nanny takes care of the kids and her husband busts his hump to pay all the bills she goes to court and demands lifetime alimony so that she can be "maintained in the manner to which she became accustomed" while sitting on her fat ass all these years.
Sounds ridiculous but this is exactly how my marriage to a SAHM ended.
"And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her." -Holy Bible











Yup, if there is one thing that any lurker around here possible still thinking of marriage should do, NEVER let your wife become a SAHM. While you may (will) in the end get nailed for Child Support it much harder to make a case for lengthy alimony if she worked the entire time.

































Yes, this is EXACTLY what happens...
And maybe somebody has already said this above (because as usual, I'm puking this all out before I forget it)..
This is EXACTLY why, when your ex-wife gets remarried, HIS income and everything SHOULD factor into the overall amount of CHILD SUPPORT you pay.
If ALIMONY goes away when your ex-wife gets married, why is that child support is WHOLLY UNAFFECTED when your ex-wife gets married?
I know the argument is --- well it's YOUR kid, not HIS..... FUCK THAT SHIT....
YOU [guy] are the one who decided to marry my ex-wife.
YOU [guy] are the one who decided he wanted to play "stepdaddy" to my kids
Give. ME. A. FUCKING. BREAK!
MONKEYFUCKINGRAGE!
Listen the fuck up, lurkers -- 'cuz here is what happens:
1. You get divorced and now you're paying child support
2. Your wife --- who naturally has probably better than 85% of the time with your kids --- marries a man who is the VP of XXXXX Corp, and he's making $250,000+.
3. Your wife now QUITS HER JOB.
Guess what --- YOU ARE STILL PAYING MOTHERFUCKING CHILD SUPPORT
...although SHE isn't paying any of HER money to 'raise your kid'... you're now paying ANOTHER MAN "child support" because HE's paying HIS money for a kid(s) that is NOT HIS?!????
WHAT A MIND FUCK!
4. And guess what your ex does with your motherfucking child support? That's right... new car, new tit job, full time nanny, etc. etc...
on and on and on the list goes...
THAT's what your motherfucking child support pays for.... subsidizing EVERYTHING she desires.
She quit her job and now YOU are paying her fucking "salary"...
YOU are the one PAYING her to be a stay at home mom.
and on top of all that fucking shit, you STILL get one day a week and every other weekend...
And the fucker making $250 large a year? Yeah, he's the one playing catch with your son... He's the one taking your daughter to the father-daughter dance at school... He's the one helping them with their homework most of the time..
YOU HAVE BEEN REPLACED, FUCKER.... AND YOU ARE ACTUALLY BEING FORCED TO FINANCE YOUR REPLACEMENT!
M.O.T.H.E.R.F.U.C.K.I.N.G.M.O.N.K.E.Y.R.A.G.E.
My ex-wife got remarried earlier this year.
Her name is NOT on her new husband's home mortgage.
When she quits her job [yes, it'll happen], ain't that fucking grand that THE CHILD SUPPORT I PAY IS ACTUALLY GOING TOWARDS ANOTHER MAN'S HOME MORTGAGE?!?!????
Think about that for a minute.... when she and this guy get a divorce in the future, *I* will have paid a portion of that fucker's home mortgage! THE MIND BOGGLES!
How is it that *I* have to pay for another man's mortgage, while SHE can quit her job and actually pay NONE of it?
THE MIND FUCKING BOGGLES@!!
godDAMN, but I shouldna have read this fucking thread tonight!
Last edited by Sam I Am; 09-27-2012 at 12:41 AM.
Any woman who's NAWALT is only NAWALT until they *turn* AWALT. That might take 10 minutes or 10 years, best not to be married to it when THAT happens. - MisterPho
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Lol its like they revel in their parasitic nature.
Mind boggling.
Alpha lays, beta pays.











Sam I Am. Yup...women marry up and leave a wake of destruction in their path. My nut jobs first marriage. By all accounts (I believe this), she fucked up and didn't get a cent out of him. Why? She didn't marry someone above her income level. He wasn't much of a provider (again...I believe this).
Now take my marriage with her. I make ~$30k/year more than her. That's a good bit more, but not a HUGE amount more (not by gold-digger standards). She miscalculated on one thing. She broke out the crazy BEFORE I had a chance to adopt her kids. If she had kept her game face on for another 4-6 months...I'd have adopted her kids...and she'd have $1,309+/month in child support for the next 14+ years.
As it is...from an 11 month marriage...she netted: 1. A ~$10k car...free. 2. 6+ months free in a house with a $1,355/month mortgage (my house). Just think of it....she is kicking herself not because of how she treated me...but because she couldn't hold it together long enough to finalize that one detail that would have literally permitted her to pay for MY house. I would have been forced to let her take the place over, because I literally couldn't have afforded to carry it anymore.









My response to this fems BS against Men:
Rule number 1: Women are not to be dated, lived with, have kids with, get married to nor even have sex with so not to potentially deal with their "pregger" tricks.
Rule number 2: First learn rule number 1.
Being with a fem(s) is like carrying a huge bag of f-ing bricks. All you gotta do is set it down... Who are you carrying all those bricks for anyway? Surely not for fem(s) especially ingrateful ones.
fems - a Man is best to be void of these parasites.
HEY fems, I WANT MY RIB BACK NOW you DON'T DESERVE IT!
IMO this is so true with even thinking about females: "Having is not so great a thing as wanting. I know it isn't logical, but it is very often true." - Mr. Spock, Star Trek











woman: the most parasitic creature in the world
"women are just constantly patting themselves on the back about how difficult their lives are, and no one corrects them cuz they wanna fuck them" - Bill Burr
They want to work as a candy taster, and they want to be paid CEO rates for it.











I'll never forget the first time the first time I heard a guy at work complaining because he didn't receive his child support on time. I stopped and asked, "You receive child support from your ex?" I'm thinking, I need to learn from this guy!
Then he says, no, "we" (he says, very sarcastically) receive child support from his wife's "deadbeat ex-husband".
It's bad enough when women do it. But there are few things more repulsive than a man complaining about not receiving another man's income fast enough (and having done nothing to earn it).
Whoever says that slavery is dead hasn't been married.











Hey...now! That White Knight is defending the honor of his she-beast.
I'm pissed because my nut job hasn't paid me my goddamn spousal support money. She owes me two months already. She's living in my house and I'm paying for her car...so yeah...it would be nice if I could get a few bucks out of her. You should have seen the fit she threw at her lawyer when the judge ordered her to pay me support. lol. The dummy didn't process that she'd been living for free for five months and that MOST people have a problem with that.











Sam's monkey rage has sent me to the corner of the room with the shakes..
Out here (this is how spoiled arab women are..) it's basically STANDARD to have a fulltime, live-in maid in the house, who is also the nanny and everything else the little princess doesnt want to do. You can get an indian or filipina maid for about 500 bucks a month.
"Be of good cheer my brothers! As it turns out, all we need to do to win is to do nothing." - Womanhater
- The Dangerous Rise of Sexual Politics -Stephen Baskerville, Ph.D.
- Sexual Utopia - F. Roger Devlin











I see this all the time in NYC. You see a woman (Usually from the Upper East/West Side) at a park with her kids, while she has a Jamaican nanny with her. It seems like such a waste of money, but like someone else said, kids are just accessories for these women. Chances are they never worked a day in their lives, but managed to bag a doctor/lawyer/CEO. Women in wealthier parts of Manhattan LOVE spending money on frivolous bullshit, so it's no surprise that they'd hire someone to watch their kids while they sit around all day drinking mimosas and watching their soaps.
EDIT: And isn't it funny how if a man lived like this they'd be called a bum, a deadbeat, a drunkard, etc. But if a woman does the same she's reassured that "being a mother is a hard job" or that "she deserves all the help she can get"? Most of these SAHM's are no different than your average bum and are no smarter than your average retard. The only difference is they married up to get a higher status.
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This.And isn't it funny how if a man lived like this they'd be called a bum, a deadbeat, a drunkard, etc.
"Be of good cheer my brothers! As it turns out, all we need to do to win is to do nothing." - Womanhater
- The Dangerous Rise of Sexual Politics -Stephen Baskerville, Ph.D.
- Sexual Utopia - F. Roger Devlin











I lived this.
Don't get me started......
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