Well, what the ****!
I'm not sure I understand what "not giving a ****" means but I don't give a shit about it.
On the other hand, it is true that if you are too eager to please women they will see you as needy. Bad boys don't give a **** but they **** just the same. Women don't want men to care for them or about them. And when you think about it, it's better that way.