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A recent post in the general forum begged a critical question: what are the benefits of ghosting?

Link: http://www.mgtowforums.com/forums/mg...-ghosting.html

A simple question indeed, and I jumped at the opportunity to answer it as concisely and thoroughly as possible, which amounted to this list:

Benefits of ghosting:

- takes a good man off the market, hastening the popping of the Misandry Bubble; like any other boycott, it starves the beast

- one gets a good long look at how much of their behavior is devoted to getting pussy, and therefore can make healthy priority adjustments

- saves lots of time and money

- monkey-wrenches a diseased system based on exploiting men's biology

- develops a keen sense of liberation from the wheel of what Buddhists call "Samsara", (I highly recommend reading the book "Siddhartha" by Herman Hesse).

- Helps those who have been programmed their whole lives to be nice-guy manginas, pussy beggars, "hopeless romantics", etc., break free from their daisy-picking conditioning and achieve the balance of true manhood

- Expands one's sphere of availability, (i.e., ghosting now has loosened my moral fibers well enough to call a dumb cunt a DUMB CUNT to her ugly puckered face without a second thought, whereas I used to be hampered by artificial values that made women out to be somehow beyond such honest scrutiny.)

- Increases the game potential of the ghost. Nothing is more hopeless than a mangina who tries to jump right into PUA games without changing his overall perspective on women: he'll be ensnared and have his game turned against him damn near instantly when he lets down his guard, after the first signs of success, since his overall program is still pussy-addiction, pussy-desperation, making up for pussy-deprivation, etc. A period of ghosting, digesting the red pills fully, and understanding the value of his own celibacy seems crucial to posturing ones self effectively with women. Otherwise, a mangina who goes right into PUA gaming without acquiring the necessary attitude and self-respect is just like a perfumed pig.

- Pretty damn good assurance against STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and the wrath of most Gods if you believe in such things. I'm a model agnostic myself, but I do think there was wisdom in the religious teachings that recommend letting one's willpower and mind be the master of one's sexuality instead of the other way around.

- Society has a harder time taking your dick, wrapping it around your neck, and hanging you with it if you only use it to pee and jerk off.

For many, this list hardly needs further elaboration. But, I have decided to take the time to go through the benefits of ghosting for its own sake.

For those that may be new to the term, Ghosting describes a lifestyle whereby a man chooses to live his life solely for himself, his own attainments, and his own leisure, valuing his personal integrity over the pursuit of women.

Ghosting often includes paying as little in taxes as possible, as taxes are used disproportionately to fund social programs that replace fatherhood with the state, thus creating what I like to call “nanny fascism”. A man only has to work so much to be happy and satisfied, whereas men who get married are constantly hounded to work themselves to death so the wife can fill closets full of shoes. The wife then complains about the man always working and never having time for her, so she cheats, etc etc etc; (the red pill forum has more than enough stories to illustrate where all of this eventually goes).

Thus, by being a ghost, a man can devote his time to his interests, such as hunting, travelling, building various things, reading, art, music, farming, etc., without being hamstrung by the soul-crushing vice of a self-centered, nagging bitch.

Participating as little as possible in the inane social charades that are propped up by the media is also par for the ghostly course. Ghosts tend to watch TV very seldom as media advertisements are based primarily on making sheeple buy useless products out of fear. A ghost comes close to wanting only what he needs and needing only what he wants.

Ghosts aren’t always completely celibate, but remember the description at the beginning of the blog:

“…valuing his personal integrity over the pursuit of women.”

This is key to MGTOW imo.

The amount of sex a ghost is willing to have varies from ghost to ghost. Ghosts are not of a hive mind, and their values are all different as their fingerprints, as are their varying definitions, qualities and quantities of “personal integrity.” One ghost may frequent prostitutes, another may pump and dump on occasion, yet others remain happily celibate.

The common thread between ghosts seems to be their immanent willingness to deny sex rather than be depraved sexual opportunists who’ll bang anything that seems ready, willing, and able. They seem to have more reasons to talk themselves out of sex than to talk themselves into it, knowing full well the myriad malefic fates that can befall him should he choose to engage sexually with a modern female. A lucid and honest risk/benefit analysis of sex these days can only lead one to conclude that it’s simply not worth it ninety-nine times out of a hundred imo.

A short-but-ever-growing list of these drawbacks to engaging in sexual relations with women is a tall order, but to name a few:

- Rampant sexually transmitted disease
- Being sperm-jacked into 18+ years of financial servitude by forced fatherhood
- Being falsely accused of rape
- Being guilt-tripped and harassed into all kinds of insane situations
- Unwittingly destroying a family when you find out that she’s married
- Being led to believe that she “loves” you
- Being coerced against your good sense into being her “nesting male”, a sucker who is used for cohabitation benefits while the sex quotient rapidly declines.

The most honest women these days are prostitutes. You give them money, they give you sex. Wives, girlfriends, and every other parasite aren’t as cost-effective. They will keep on sucking the life out of their host organism until dead, and then will simply move on to another host organism, rinse and repeat. A prostitute gives no false pretences of wanting to stay latched on to a man to bleed him completely dry.

Game, PUA tactics, and the “Venusian Arts” have all been used to describe ways in which a man may posture himself effectively and easily get laid while avoiding the pitfalls of relationshits. Although these ways work for certain types of men, they largely give false hope to the typical hapless dry-dicked male and lead him headlong into utter doom. A man who has been programmed from birth to be a “nice guy”, a savior and protector of women, always waiting for pussy to fall all over him from on high cannot intelligently apply game without first coming to terms with the true nature of women.

Women don’t fuck “nice guys”, simpering suck-ups, pussy-beggars, and manginas. Women treat these poor creatures like “friends”, “brothers”, and other asexual devices. These men will listen to women prattle about the bad guys they are fucking for hours, though, in the depressingly-vain hopes that such women will start wanting their dick. Women simply don’t work this way, but the number of men who are willing to abase themselves to being dough-eyed emotional tampons for women who will never fuck them are legion.

Ghosting provides so many benefits to 21st century men that one blog can hardly cover it all. A wise man said that ghosting is not required for MGTOW, but being able to ghost enables a man to go his own way. Ghosting is the mark of triumph of man’s will, intelligence, and integrity over his base desires, his ego, and his bodily impulses.

How much are you willing to compromise for pussy anyway? The stakes are high these days, and in any case, women don’t fuck guys who seem like they need to fuck. For all the desperate lurkers who are wondering why they aren’t getting laid, take heed and take warning: Ghosting fortified by the sober understanding of the primal nature of women will make the pussy chase after you, but pussy can quickly lead to your complete destruction. It’s up to each man to decide how celibate he wants to be, but remember your integrity, and never give away any of your self-respect for a piece of ass.